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Welcome to The In-Betweens!

Hey, my lovely! 🌸

I’m so excited to have you here in my little corner of the internet. You might be wondering what The In-Betweens is all about. Well, it's where I get real about this crazy, wonderful, messy space between where I dream my life would be and where it actually is right now. You know what I mean, right? It’s that in-between space where you’re juggling everything, trying to live your best life, while sometimes just surviving the day.

So, let me introduce myself. I’m a 29-year-old mom of two beautiful kiddos—a curious 4-year-old and a snuggly newborn—who keep me on my toes. I’m also a wife to my best friend and the absolute BEST dad in the world (he'll probably side-eye me after reading this, but oh well...) Oh, and when I’m not playing supermom or hunting for the last bit of caffeine, I’m a civil engineer and part-time lecturer. Yup, life is full, and sometimes a little chaotic.

But wait, there’s more! I’m passionate about all things creative, like podcasting, making videos, designing graphics, and just connecting with people (you’ll figure that out soon). I love having deep conversations but can totally geek out over materials science and structural engineering one minute, then chat about the joys and chaos of motherhood the next.

The In-Betweens is all about the space we live in between our goals and our reality, between ambition and rest, between the chaos of family life and those rare moments of calm. I’ll be sharing my thoughts, struggles, wins, and maybe a few funny stories along the way. Hopefully, it’ll remind you that you’re not alone in your own in-between moments.

But this isn't just about me—I'd love to hear about you! Whether you’re a fellow mama, an ambitious soul chasing your dreams, or just someone who's navigating their own "in-between" phase, drop a comment or share a little about yourself. Let’s create a space where we can uplift and inspire each other.

Grab a cup of tea (or wine, or tequila - hey, no judgment!), make yourself comfy, and let's dive into this journey together. 🩷

With love,  

Your girl from The In-Betweens 🌿


P.S. What's your current "in-between" moment? 

Let's chat in the comments!

Comments

  1. GaliilovescherriblossomsOctober 22, 2024 at 9:51 PM

    Currently in between chasing my dream and getting set backs and wondering if this is really what I want because it's so tiring getting your hopes high only to feel let down

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    1. Tshenolo Mrs MOctober 23, 2024 at 2:59 AM

      I feel you :( Don't despair my love. Sometimes life throws curveballs and setbacks but keep your eyes on your goals. It will all be worth it in the end

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  2. DikonketsoOctober 24, 2024 at 1:49 PM

    So excited about this blog. Current in-between is balancing work/career/dream and being the parent I want to be. Counting my blessings while aspiring for that goal.

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  3. MahlatseNovember 13, 2024 at 9:19 PM

    Hey mama , oh this was such a heart warming read 🥹 currently in my in- between as well trying to balance work , wife , student and mom life

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    1. Tshenolo Mrs MNovember 25, 2024 at 6:33 PM

      I'm so glad you resonated! Careful not to get dizzy on the rollercoaster ride haha!

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