Can One Find Joy in a Full Schedule?👀
Life as a mom, wife, entrepreneur, and academic often feels like I’m balancing on a tightrope, with one foot carefully placed ahead of the other. Some days, I just about nail the landing. Other days, I’m wobbling, arms flailing, praying I don’t tumble into chaos. And if I do, that I can quickly get back up. But amidst all the juggling, I’ve found moments of joy that make it all worthwhile. Here’s how I navigate this busy season of life.
Embracing the Chaos
The first thing I’ve learned is to embrace the chaos rather than fight it. With a newborn’s unpredictable schedule and a toddler’s boundless energy, I’ve had to let go of the idea that everything needs to go as planned. Instead, I focus on setting flexible priorities—a to-do list that bends with the day’s demands. On some days, the priority is meeting a lecturing deadline. On others, it’s giving my baby those extra cuddles she needs or being present for my toddler’s afternoon adventures.
Anticipating a New Chapter
This year, I’m beginning my post-grad journey—a step I’ve dreamed of taking for years. But with that dream comes a hefty dose of anticipation and nervousness. Honestly, the thought of balancing everything with the added pressure of academic deadlines is enough to paralyze a live cow (and maybe even me on some days!). Yet, it’s a challenge I’m ready to face, knowing it’s part of building the life I’ve envisioned.
Planning Ahead but Staying Flexible
Having a plan is essential, but so is the ability to adapt. For me, Sunday evenings are sacred for planning the week ahead. I review work commitments, business tasks, and family needs, penciling everything into my planner. But I also leave space for the unexpected—because, as any mom knows, there will always be surprises (like a toddler meltdown or a baby growth spurt).
Delegating and Asking for Help
One of my biggest lessons has been understanding that I don’t have to do it all alone. Whether it’s asking my husband to take over bath time or outsourcing parts of my businesses, I’ve learned that delegating doesn’t mean I’m failing—it means I’m prioritizing what matters most. It’s also how I make room for those moments of joy.
Finding Joy in the Little Moments
In the midst of all the busyness, I’ve learned to find joy in the little moments. It’s the sound of my toddler’s giggles as we dance in the living room, the quiet calm of nursing my baby in the early morning, or the satisfaction of crossing something off my to-do list. These small moments are reminders of why I do what I do.
Letting Go of Perfection
Perfection is overrated. My house won’t always be spotless, my to-do list won’t always get completed, and sometimes dinner might just be takeout. Or cereal. And that's okay...Who's checking?! Giving myself grace has been a game-changer in finding balance and joy.
Looking Ahead
This season of life is full, but it’s also fleeting. One day, my kids won’t need me as much, and my schedule won’t revolve around nap times and snack breaks. Until then, I’m choosing to savor these moments and remind myself that I’m building something beautiful—not just in my career but also in my family.
If you’re a mom juggling multiple roles, how do you find joy in the midst of it all?
I’d REAAAAALLY love to hear your thoughts in the comments below. ☺
Cheering you on always 💖
Your Mom-Friend
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